People often talk about how wonderful their life as a couple is, about the walk they took on a Sunday afternoon, about the gifts they decided to give each other for their anniversary...

But the truth is that we often forget to mention those red flags to our friends and family, which we overlook, either out of love for our partners or out of fear of being socially judged. There are thousands of reasons why we allow things that deep down we know are wrong.

That's why today we bring you, dear readers, five red flags in your relationship that you shouldn't ignore, as they are perfect signs that you may be with the wrong person.

(First sign)

What kind of care does that person give to your things?

You may now be asking yourself, “Why is this important?”

Well, it's important because if, when comparing the way you treat him, you find a discrepancy between the importance you give to his things or you perceive that he doesn't give them the full importance, this is a red flag.

Another, much more alarming red flag arises when this situation reaches the point where, when he is upset, he throws or throws your belongings.

You must remember that someone who doesn't respect your things is one step away from not respecting you, and that the respect that the people around you give you is the same respect you give yourself. Don't allow or overlook humiliation or slights.

Understand that without respect, love does not exist and that the first step to being able to love is to love yourself.

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(Second sign)

Does he blatantly stare at other people while he's with you?

We are human beings and this therefore makes us sexual beings. The problem is not that other people attract your attention because at the end of the day, as we already mentioned, it is a completely natural issue.

The problem begins the moment your partner is unable to respect your presence and exhibits these behaviors. Talking to your partner may help you find a solution, but it is important that you remember the first point of this article, as this should be your personal mantra: "Whoever doesn't respect me doesn't love me." Understand that respect shouldn't be asked for. If you observe these behaviors and don't like to express them, stop dating that person as soon as possible.

(Third sign)

He hides things from you

This person may argue that these are silly details that don't matter, things like where they are, who you're with, being sick so they can't see you, etc.

You must keep in mind that the basis of a relationship is bilateral communication. Both parties must continually strive to communicate. It's useless for you to be as transparent as water if the person you're in a relationship with doesn't abide by the same code.

(Fourth sign)

He is a violent person

The place where these outbursts occur is irrelevant; a person who is violent at work or violent with their family is a violent person.

It's extremely common for people with such a partner to justify their abusive partner. If you have a person at your side today who is incapable of emotional self-regulation, it's likely that one day you'll also fall victim to their hysteria.

Affective relationships are those spaces in which we can be ourselves, feel safe, happy, and calm.

If your current partner isn't giving you that, they're not the person you want to share your life with.

(Fifth sign)

Minimizes your feelings when you try to talk about how you feel

This is possibly the strongest reason to cut off a relationship with someone.

Being in a romantic relationship with someone should be synonymous with being a friend and having the confidence to tell them everything that worries or torments you. If you're with someone who listens to what worries you but minimizes it, you'll likely end up feeling unhappy and even with self-esteem issues, so this is another area that deserves close attention.

Remember to pay attention to these signs and that there are many people who love you and can help you interpret those five red flags in your relationship if you're still feeling a little confused.