One of the most frequently asked questions on the LizaPons blog is:
How to stop dating the wrong men?
That's why today we bring you 5 tips to help you identify these difficult men and keep them off your list of future conquests.
TIP NUMBER 1
Identify if that person has basic things in common with you
You have to be honest and intelligent; not all the guys you go out with are going to have the makings of your future husband.
This means that you can relax and enjoy the different people you meet throughout your life, however, if you identify the fact that you go out with the wrong men as a pattern, it is probably because you never take the time to check if their basics are compatible with yours;
And what are the basics? They're all those aspects that are non-negotiable for you in your future life.
When you start getting to know someone you like, take the time to find out what their childhood was like, if they're close with their family, if they want to get married, if they want children, if they believe in God.
Because the more their basics are aligned with yours, the more likely you and that person are to build something in the long run.
If you don't feel comfortable asking that question, it's a great indicator that they're not the right person for you, because people who grow up together have those kinds of difficult conversations—conversations that help them figure out where they are in their lives and where they want to go.
TIP NUMBER 2
Ask yourself if that person meets your emotional, sexual and romantic needs.
Give yourself the opportunity to identify whether that person makes your needs their priority or if they're simply an aspect they don't consider. You should always make sure that in your relationships you get what you're investing in—in all aspects of time, energy, and money.
And if he doesn't or says he's trying and you ask for too much, that's another sign that he's not for you.
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TIP NUMBER 3
Recognize if you feel valued as a person and as a woman when you are with him.
It goes hand in hand with tip number 2. You feel that this person cares for you as you care for them. Do you feel that it is mutual?
If you have doubts, it's a sign that there's probably an aspect of you that's still unsatisfied, and if you don't feel fulfilled, this isn't the person you should be with.
TIP NUMBER 4
Ask yourself if you feel you can be yourself when you are with that person.
If you feel that it could indeed be you, with all your crazy facets and feelings, it's a good sign.
If you feel like you have to change even the smallest details to fit into someone's life, that person probably isn't right for you.
TIP NUMBER 5
Ask yourself if there is anything you would like to change about that person.
Of course, no one is perfect, but we're talking about aspects that we truly long to change. If you think about it and discover that there is indeed something wrong, this is another very good sign that maybe this isn't the person you should be with.
True love is unconditional, it loves, adores, and accepts all the negative aspects of the other person. If there are things you'd like to change, it's probably because they're things you can't live with, the basics we talked about in tip number 1.
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